Do you stand by, or stand out from the crowd?
David Shariatmadari
http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/jan/06/bystander-stand-out-crowd-intervene-help
Increasingly we find ourselves in crowds – making our way through cities, flying between them, joining in discussion and argument on the internet. Ironically, these crowds, each one a mass of humanity, can feel like the least human force on Earth. Perhaps from time to time we can try to be among the faces that stand out.
Researchers at UCLA set up a fake Facebook profile in which a “mean” comment was posted under a range of different status updates, such as “I hate it when you miss someone like crazy and you think they might not miss you back”. In each case, the “mean” riposte was: “Who cares! This is why nobody likes you …” Most subjects agreed that this constituted bullying, and many said that they would be likely to intervene – either by challenging the comment or sending a private message of support. Interestingly, there was less sympathy when the original message was more personal, suggesting that people who “overshared” might be seen as bringing criticism on themselves.
To a certain extent this article employs the idea that we are more likely to rebuke offensive criticism on-line rather than in real life. it makes you question how far you would go for redemption.
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